Wednesday, September 29, 2010

Fru Tube on the Fritz..stay tuned!


We'll have video up later today showing how to roast your own peppers.
It's not a question of money for once
it's finding batteries for the Flip Video Camera.....
We should just wrench them out of the gameboys.
We're pretty sure that's what happened to all the batteries that have been stripped from every single remote in our houses.

Bring Home the Bacon New Frugal Feasts Column Exclusively Today in the Concord Monitor!


Photo by Ken Williams for the Concord Monitor


Did you hear that the recession is so totally 2009? Apparently, leading economic indicators show our economy on an upswing. We say "apparently" because the Fru-gals are scrambling so hard to stay afloat we don't have time to stop and listen to economists pontificating on cable TV. Okay, so we don't actually have cable TV anymore, but if we did, we are more in the mood to watch Mrs. Brady out cha cha Bristol Palin than to try to figure out how the nerd herd has gotten it so wrong. Here's our leading economic indicator: there are cute shoes in all sizes over at Marshall's, not just in sizes 6 and 10, and the dollar store has a line right out the door. Maybe we should be on cable instead of the eggheads. Our show could be a little cooking, a little kvetching and as long as the producers can pull the cameras back to about Cleveland, and borrow that slimming lens from Oprah, we'd be great.

One of the ways we've been cutting back has been to turn meat from the main focus of our dinners into more of a garnish. Our men folk are visual creatures, quick with a knife and a fork, so if we spread a little protein on the top of a giant pile of rice, they are usually wiping their mouths before they realize that they just ate, well, a giant pile of mostly rice. Thankfully they also don't regularly read our column.

If we were less honest, we could simply say that we are eating less meat because it's a choice that is good for about a hundred reasons. Sure, we'll admit that you can load all the good reasons to eat less meat into the basket on one side of a scale and they'd be sent flying by half a juicy steak in the other, but the truth is eating meat is costly in a lot of ways, and maybe we are better off not indulging so often, even when (if?) the economy actually does turn around.

Change is hard and you can expect some grumbling from the masses as you try to wean them from taco Tuesdays and pork chop Thursdays. Here is a handy list of talking points for promoting less meaty meals; if reason doesn't work, you can always crumple the paper up and use it to plug your ears:

• Good for our pocketbooks: Our favorite steak, the first cut boneless chuck steak, is $3.99 a pound. Rice and beans, which together create nutritionally complete protein is about a dollar a pound.

• Good for our environment: According to New York Times food writer Mark Bittman, raising 2.2 pounds of beef releases as much CO2 into the atmosphere as driving 155 miles and burns enough energy to light a 100-watt bulb for nearly 20 days. It's weird to think about dinner in this way, but raising animals for food uses a lot of fuel.

• Good for our bodies: Less meat means less cholesterol in our bloodstream, which means better health and possibly a longer life. Not to mention more energy for cooking and cleaning for our ever-grateful families.

• Good for Wilbur: Remember Charlotte's Web? Pretty much everyone but Templeton would be happy if the cows and chickens and pigs got to stay around a while.

For this week's column, we take one pound of bacon and use it to provide meaty flavor to three dinners, each serving 6 people. You can get all fancy and get slab bacon, but seriously, any bacon will do.

Pasta Carbonara

1 pound thin spaghetti
5 slices bacon
2 large white onions, chopped fine
2 large eggs, beaten or ¼ cup pasteurized egg product (see note)
¼ cup heavy cream
½ cup grated Parmesan cheese, plus more for serving
1 teaspoon kosher salt
2 tablespoons fresh ground black pepper
handful fresh parsley, minced

Cook the spaghetti according to package directions, drain and keep warm. Meanwhile, chop the bacon into 1-inch pieces. Fry in a heavy skillet over medium heat until crisp, being careful not to burn the bacon or the bacon fat. Remove the bacon with a slotted spoon and drain on paper towels. Add the onions to the pan and saute for 4 to 5 minutes over medium-low heat until limp and glossy.

In a large serving bowl, whisk together the egg or egg product, heavy cream, Parmesan cheese, salt and pepper. Add the cooked and drained spaghetti and toss with salad tongs until the pasta is evenly coated with the sauce. Add the bacon and onions and toss again. Garnish with the parsley. Serve in shallow bowls passing additional Parmesan at the table.

Note: we like to live dangerously and make this with raw eggs. It is much safer to make it with a pasteurized egg product.

Bacon Fried Rice

4 cups cooked rice
5 strips bacon, sliced into 1-inch pieces
2 small zucchini, sliced into bite-sized pieces
2 small summer squash, sliced into bite-sized pieces
6 to 8 mushrooms, thinly sliced
2 eggs, well beaten
6 green onions, thinly sliced
3 tablespoons soy sauce

In a very large skillet or wok, fry the bacon until it is crisp. Remove with a slotted spoon and drain on paper towels. Add the zucchini, summer squash and mushrooms and saute over medium-low heat for 3 to 5 minutes, until the vegetables are cooked but still slightly firm. Push the vegetables to the side and add the beaten eggs to the pan. Cook for another minute moving the eggs around with a spatula until they are scrambled. Stir in the rice and continue to cook until the rice is heated through. Add the soy sauce and the green onions and stir until the mixture is well blended. Serve in bowls. Pass extra soy sauce at the table.

Note: Customize this with whatever vegetables you've got on hand. A can of well drained diced tomatoes, frozen peas and or corn and diced carrots would all be excellent choices.

Bacon and Eggplant Panini

1 medium eggplant (see note)
2 tablespoons kosher salt
¼ cup balsamic vinegar
9 strips bacon, cooked until crisp, drained and cut in half
6 slices mozzarella or provolone cheese, or six of each
1 small jar of roasted red peppers
6 whole wheat rolls, cut in half
¼ cup olive oil, divided

Balsamic-Ranch Dipping Sauce (recipe follows)

To prepare the eggplant: Cut the top off the eggplant. Slice into thin vertical slices. Spread the eggplant slices in a single layer on a rimmed cookie sheet and sprinkle with the kosher salt. Let sit for 25 to 30 minutes to draw out the bitter juices. Wipe off the salt and brush each slice with a little olive oil. Spray a ridged grill pan with cooking spray and heat over medium high heat until if feels hot when you hold your hand an inch or two above the stove. Lay the eggplant slices onto the heated pan with a pair of tongs and grill for 2 to 3 minutes on each side, turning once. Remove from the grill pan and place in a shallow bowl. Drizzle with the balsamic vinegar. Let marinate for 15 minutes or longer.

To prepare the Panini: Brush the cut sides of each roll with olive oil. Place one half of each roll - cut-side down - onto the heated grill pan. Top with a slice of cheese, a slice of the grilled eggplant, a few slivers of roasted red pepper and 3 half strips of bacon. Add another slice of cheese and the other half of the roll - cut side up - to each of the six sandwiches. Place a cookie sheet on top of the sandwiches and weight it with a heavy pot or a couple of heavy cans. Cook over medium heat for 3 minutes. Remove the weights and the cookie sheet and flip each sandwich over. Replace the cookie sheet and the weights and cook for another 2 to 3 minutes until the cheese is melted. Serve cut in half.

Note: Not up for grilling eggplant? Substitute zucchini or summer squash, sauteed in olive oil and drizzled with balsamic vinegar.

Balsamic-Ranch Dipping Sauce

½ cup ranch dressing
2 teaspoons balsamic vinegar
1 clove garlic, minced

Blend together all ingredients and serve with panini.



I'm Back



The last ribbon has been tied


Every I dotted and T crossed


The Dress has been folded with care and put away


The last dance has been danced


The champagne bubble has popped



It has been so hard for me to to jump back in to reality...to bacon three ways, stretching ham out to last for four meals instead of two...checking the check book balance everyday.... saying no to ski passes and hockey sign-ups and a host of other items that are simply unaffordable right now.

For a brief time it was bliss and I paid no attention to the minor details of life...you know...like survival. I just enjoyed each moment, knowing there would be plenty of time on September 26th to worry......



I was a bustling, tearful, joyful mother of the bride. I spent time at the hairdresser, the nail salon and yes, the spa.

My daughter and I laughed and cried, pinched each other with anticipation,
and hugged in amazement of the magic that was happening all around us.



The wedding day was magical. Things that had no business falling into place fell right into place and every single little detail miraculously came together.

My beautiful daughters and my six sons were everything a mom could ever hope for; gracious, respectful, kind, loving...as parents we sometimes feel we can not see the forest for the trees..

This past weekend I could see the forest.... I stood in the middle of the forest and danced the night away .


Monday, September 27, 2010

Um... Robin? Hello?




Yes it was the most beautiful wedding I've ever had the honor of attending.

Yes it was a day filled with love and laughter.

Yes Catherine and Dan made a couple so adorable they should model for wedding cake toppers.

Yes, watching them be married in the church of Catherine's childhood brought tears to our eyes.

Yes Robin and Dave you pulled it off with style and grace.

Yes, the assorted siblings behaved themselves like little ladies and gentlemen.

Yes the food was delicious.

Yes the wine was plentiful.

Yes the decorations were simple and elegant.

Yes the tent was spectacular.

Yes we danced the night away.

But now it's over.

Get back to blogging.


Sunday, September 26, 2010

Petey's Lasagna


The one good thing about working six days a week at the brewery
is that Petey really steps up and makes dinner at least a few nights a week.

Here is my domesticated little minx taking his lasagna out of the oven.

Scrumptious!

Must have been the innovative Old World Italian-Style Recipe

he found on the back of a box of Old World Italian Style Pasta...




at the very Old World Italian-Style Market Basket grocery store in downtown Conkie.




No need to include the recipe here.
You can get your own copy right off the back of the box,
which are currently on special in aisle 4.



Keep your fingers crossed that one day, hopefully soon,
Petey will share his homemade ranch dressing recipe.

Tuesday, September 21, 2010

Another One of Those Days



That's it. I'm done with being a snob.

On my way home today I'm gonna get some of those plastic shower curtain rings that come in the nice pastel colors and close with a satisfying snap over the rod. and then I'm going to take the stainless steel shower curtain hooks that were 36 bucks at Pottery Barn and throw them right the eff out.

This morning as I was attempting to shut the shower curtain one of those damned ball-topped hooks came off the rod and clocked me in the center of my fivehead and now I have a very painful and ridiculously circular bruise. It looks like I got shot. Or Indian. Not good.

And I'm not stopping there. What has my eternal insistence on nice things ever gotten me but poor, and a sore throat from screaming at my kids when some precious little twee thing gets wrecked?

From this point on I'm gonna be just one of the regular folks who will only buy work clothes that are Wash and Wear. Screw the dry cleaners. Screw the iron too. And cute heels? You are dead to me. Ima get me a pair of those nurse shoes.

Plastic slip covers might be next.


Tuesday, September 14, 2010

Wedding Count Down eleven more days....

Eleven Days and counting.....The wedding is consuming much of my time these days. My first born child is getting married, my youngest child just turned 9 so in between, wedding prep , birthday bashes, and 6 other children my blogging has been a bit lax.

For some reason I have not had time to document all the wonderful meals I have been preparing for my family these days, all the good and funny things that grace my day..

So here is a bit of what is going down..
These two couples will become part of a brand new family in Eleven days. A new family that consists of our children and possible grandchildren to come, a whole life of ups and downs, in and outs and all things that life will send thier way... we are tired ...but ready fore the challenge if we can just get through he wedding.....


This lovely young lady will soon become a wife, a kind , supportive, loving wife to Dan, and her wonderful friend Nicky(pictured here as well) will help her along the way as she prepares to become the wife....Nicky has the job of saying things like.. It will be fine...things will work out...no you can not control the weather....OK, OK if you want to repack the box..we can do that...

Thank you Nicky



Here is Harry's birthday cake, My Baby turned nine, right smack dab in the middle of the wedding home stretch, can you believe that? ...This Ice cream Sand which Cake for my nine year old was the result of 140 birthday parties in 26 years with 8 children...My response to this request..."you want Ice cream sandwiches for your birthday dinner ?" Can do little man Happy Happy Birthday to me no pans to wash....no mixer involved.....perfect ....Thank you my little Harry for being you .....for accepting that the wedding has taken over everything .........for eleven more days




Here is a crowd of happy Party goers, nestled among the wedding stuff the boxes and boxes of centerpieces, the seating chart, the vases , frames and all the details that make for a perfect day, all the things that live in my dining room ...for eleven more days.....


tuxes have been fitted
the flowers ordered

limo

venue

planes tickets

hotel bags

favors

cookies baked

ribbons tied

dresses fitted

music chosen


programs printed and at last the day is almost here, The tears come very easily these days it seems for no reason at all, a glimpse at my daughter , a song on the radio, a memory, a breeze it all makes me cry, 25 years of loving, guiding, caring nurturing, it is hard to let go.

Oh but I will in eleven days...so wish me, luck hopefully my sobbing will not over take the church as this some kind of pre-menopausal mom lets go of her little girl and welcomes home a brand new family.

Stay Tuned


Monday, September 13, 2010

Off The Grid


I've been pulling double shifts down at the brewery and it's taken a sorry toll on the rest of my duties, wifely and otherwise.

I spent the weekend off the grid, and my under eye bags are sadly none the better for it.

If we can put a man on the moon, can't we figure out how to get another 3 hours between 5 and 8 am on weekday mornings?

Please?

Thursday, September 9, 2010

Crock Pot Soup

Back to School for the little cherubs and for me back to work, along with all the other responsibilities that go along with raising many children, preparing for the big Wedding, believe it or not dinner is still an issue.

The solution, for this week anyway.... Out came the crusty ole crock pot ,I plopped it upon the counter and worked it......first day smothered chicken with gravy, day two maple pork with potatoes and onions and this was the day three winner.
Crock pot Tortilla Soup,this was easy, and yummy.
I grabbed this recipe straight out of the crock pot recipe book, you know the ones sitting on the aisle at the grocery store the ones with the great photos, the photos that lure you in and then when the meal is complete you realize it tasted just like the one you made last night, how is that possible? I have learned a few things about crock pot cooking over the last 26 years and the key is in the flavorings, most of the flavor is cooked right out of the meal in the six hours you are away at work, so most meals end up extremely hot and void of taste. To fix the problem I have found that if I double or in some cases triple the flavorings this takes care of taste issue,in the recipe below it called for 1 teaspoon of cumin, I used a tablespoon and it was perfect.So try it out and let us know how your family liked this recipe and if you have one for us to try please let us know. You can e-mail the recipe to frugalfeasts@yahoo.com .

. Tortilla Chicken Soup


4 boneless, skinless chicken thighs

2 cans (15oz can) diced tomatoes,untrained

1 can (4 oz) chopped mild green chilies, drained

1/2 -1 cup chicken broth

1 yellow onion, diced

2 cloves garlic,minced

1tbs. ground cumin

salt and pepper to taste

4 corn tortillas,sliced into 1/4-inch strips

4tbs chopped fresh cilantro

1cup shredded Monterrey Jack cheese

1 avocado,peeled,diced and tossed with lime juice to prevent browning

Lime wedges

1. Place chicken in crock pot, add tomatoes with juice,chilies,chicken broth,onion, garlic and cumin gently stir to mix.


2. Cover,
cook on low 6 hours or on high for 3 hours. Remove chicken and shred with 2 forks. return to cooking liquid adjust seasonings, adding salt and pepper.


3. Just before serving add tortillas and cilantro to the crock pot. Stir to blend.

Serve on soup bowls,topping each with cheese and avocado and a squeeze of lime.

Wednesday, September 8, 2010

Wrap it Up! New Frugal Feasts Column today, exclusively in The Concord Monitor

Ah September - it's a beautiful month; the apples ripen, the good TV shows come back on and hardly anything we touch is sticky. We love fall, when our counters aren't covered with sticky Popsicle drips, our thighs no longer make a disgusting vrrrrip sound when we peel them off the pleather car seats and, best of all, our drawer of school lunch containers is well stocked, organized and hardly smells moldy at all.

We've been singing the same tune for nearly 20 years and we haven't gotten any better at staying on key. We wake up on Labor Day and vow to pack nutritious and delicious lunches for our little darlings. We stock up on chubby little carrots, lovingly dollop homemade ranch dressing into special little tubs and cut the sandwiches (made with fresh, crunchy lettuce) into fun shapes. Anyone gazing into our kids' lunch boxes in September would surely think there was a mom at home in an apron and pearls, humming a show tune and vacuuming the living room in a smart pair of kitten-heeled pumps.

But the truth is we are sprinters and the school year is a marathon. After a couple laps we are winded, and, come November, we'd have a better chance of exercising away our batwings than finding matching sandwich container and lid. By Thanksgiving we've resorted to wrapping sandwiches in the blue bags the newspaper comes in because we can't seem to remember to buy sandwich bags, and forget lettuce, it's a good day when we can offer peanut butter and jelly. Goodbye June Cleaver; hello Peg Bundy.

Sure, we could let them get school lunch. It's come a long way since we were in elementary school, and there are fairly nutritious offerings every day. But the only thing more embarrassing than opening up your lunch box and releasing a toxic cloud of egg salad vapor is buying lunch with the six quarters, 10 dimes and five green pennies your mom dug out of the sofa cushions at 7:50 in the morning because she forgot to get cash.
Again.

We hate to be annoying bossy boots who start off with a glib sentence like "spend a little time planning and you can send your children off with a great lunch." But it is true. And by spend a little time, we mean a very little time. In fact, we think there should be a game show devoted to moms making lunch. The way you win is to get them out the door quickly with a full lunch box and your sanity intact. The prizes could be so awesome: a live-in laundress, Get out of Carpool Free passes, and back rubs with no strings attached.

We love Bento Boxes. And while you could splurge on actual Japanese ones, we think the little three compartment plastic containers they sell at the grocery store for $1.99 will do nicely. Especially since they are bound to be lost at school or on the bus or wherever it is that the lunch boxes go while children are taking good care of them. Put a sandwich in the big section and fill the other two chambers with some fruit and maybe a cookie or two. Or, if you forget to hide the cookies before Ken Williams is coming to take pictures, some cashews are nice, too.

When making lunch for your little darlings, don't forget the power of the toaster and some foil. The same old cheese sandwich, made on a freshly toasted bagel and wrapped in foil, can make a melty delight that is still pleasantly warm in the cafeteria.

Leftovers are also a welcome change from PB&J. Take-out is a rare treat at our houses and it is a badge of honor to take a little container of leftover Chinese food for lunch the next day. We think it would be cute to accessorize this with a pair of those chopsticks-for-kids they make with a rubber band and shim, but we never remember to ask for another set. Forks are good, too.

Our other great lunch idea is the tortilla wrap. Somehow our kids think that sandwiches made with tortillas are more special. We tend to think bread is bread, but then we also think jeans are jeans, regardless of the label, so clearly we are not to be trusted. Here are our favorite wraps:

• The Mexican: cream cheese mashed with a little taco seasoning, topped with shredded lettuce, cheese, a few scattered black olives and a drizzle of salsa.

• The Italian: provolone and turkey pepperoni on a tortilla spread with some tomato sauce. Ketchup mixed with a little Italian seasoning is good in a pinch.

• The Cuban: left-over pork and sliced cheese with yellow mustard and chopped dill pickles.

• The Earth Mother: cream cheese, dried fruit and chopped nuts, sprinkled with a little cinnamon.

• The Egg Head: Make a thin, open-faced omelet. Add cheese and some chopped pepper. Slap it on the tortilla and roll it up with some ketchup.

• The Thanksgiving: sliced turkey and stuffing on a tortilla spread with mayo mixed with a little cranberry relish.

• The Abe Froman: Left over breakfast sausage thinly sliced and drizzled with a little maple syrup. We think this would be especially great made on a giant left-over pancake. We don't know for sure because we never have any leftover pancakes.

• The Funky Chicken: leftover chicken with sliced green olives and equal parts mustard and mayonnaise.

• The Shrimp Special: canned shrimp, drained and mixed with celery, ketchup and a little horseradish, plus a squeeze of lemon.

• The Kitchen Sink: Chopped salad veggies - cucumbers, tomatoes, radishes and grated carrots - mixed with a little shredded cheese and a healthy splurt of Ranch dressing.

We'd love to hear your best lunchbox ideas. Leave a comment on the Concord Monitor website and we'll pick one at random and award the winner with a new, and guaranteed not smelly, three-part lunch container.

Monday, September 6, 2010

Teriyaki Pork and Homemade Easy Mac & Cheese

This meal is sure to please all the boys

Teriyaki Pork, sweet and tender served up with the all time classic easy homemade mac n cheese the perfect meal..

Well I did throw the tomato in for the veggie credit, but as I am sure you know not any of the men folk here so much as acknowledged it sad but true...


Teriyaki Marinade
½ cup dry sherry
¾ cup soy sauce
3 tbs bottled steak sauce
2 tbs sugar
2 cloves garlic crushed
Combine sherry, soy sauce, steak sauce, sugar and garlic.

Teriyaki Pork
2lbs pork (pork butt cut into 2 inch wide strips)
Place meat in large Zip-Lock bag, add Teriyaki Marinade leave in fridge for 2-4 hours
Pour off marinade and place meat on pre heated grill set temp to medium close cover for 5 minutes, turn meat and cook 5 more minutes or until cooked to your liking.

Homemade easy mac

2 boxes of your favorite pasta
2lbs of deli sliced cheese, cut in half (another use whatever you have on hand item)
3/4 cup of milk, half and half (again whatever you have on hand, do you see a pattern here)
2 tbs. butter
salt and pepper to taste

place cheese, in a medium microwave safe bowl, add milk, place in microwave on med high for 3 minutes, adding 2 more minutes as needed, until nice and creamy.

cook pasta as directed, drain add in the butter, pour on cheese, mix well, salt and pepper to taste.



Simple, Cheap, boring and they LOVE IT go figure !!!!!!!



Thursday, September 2, 2010

Perfect Pecan Bars


Our friend Marianne has provided us with another delicious recipe, this time for a bar that she claims " is not nearly as complicated as some of the things I've sent you. I literally could not stop eating these. This recipe comes from the people at America's Test Kitchen Best Recipes & Reviews 2008, with one modification - I added a dash of cinnamon".

It's so damn hot we are grateful that we didn't have to fire up our oven this week, and that this recipe is easy enough for both our readers to make with ease. It seems simple and straightforward, and if this boiling weather ever breaks we'll be all over it.

In case you need a little dose of sugary dessert porn, here links to a few of Marianne's earlier recipes:

Marianne's gorgeous Fresh Lemon Coconut Cake

Marianne's scrumptious Caramel Brownies

Marianne's ridiculously chocolate Triple Chocolate Peanut Cookies


Perfect Pecan Bars
Crust
1 Cup flour
1/3 Cup packed light brown sugar
1/4 Cup pecans, toasted & coarsely chopped**
1 tsp salt (very important! The best thing about these is that they have a sweet & salty thing going on!)
1/4 teaspoon baking powder
6 Tablespoons unsalted butter, cut into 1/2 inch pieces & chilled

Filling
1/2 Cup packed light brown sugar
1/3 Cup light corn syrup
4 tablespoons unsalted butter, melted
1 Tablespoon dark rum or bourbon
2 teaspoons vanilla extract
1/2 teaspoon salt
1 egg, lightly beaten
2 Cups pecans, toasted & coarsely chopped**

**Toast all of the pecans on a rimmed baking sheet at 350 until fragrant (~8 min), stirring once.

Heat oven to 350. Line a 9 inch square pan with foil, allowing extra foil to hang over edge. (You really want to use 2 sheets of foil the width of the pan, and criss-cross them in the bottom and then up the sides so there is overhang. You want to cover pan as smoothly as possible. You don't want any of the deliciousness to be stuck to the
pan.) Coat the foil-lined pan with vegetable oil spray.

In a food processor, process flour, brown sugar, 1/4 C pecans, salt and baking powder until it resembles coarse cornmeal. (~5 quick
pulses) Add the butter & pulse until it looks like sand. Pat the mixture into the prepared pan and bake ~20min, until the crust is light brown and springs back when touched.

While the crust bakes, whisk together brown sugar, corn syrup, melted butter, rum, vanilla & salt in a medium bowl. Whisk in egg until incorporated.

Pour the filling over the hot crust and sprinkle the pecans evenly over the top. Bake until the top is brown and cracks start to form across the surface, 22 to 25 minutes, rotating the pan halfway through baking. Cool to room temperature on a wire rack 1-2 hours. Remove from pan by lifting foil overhangs. Cut into bars using a large knife.

Mad Men Cookbook Giveaway!



Betty has moved on.

The Betty Crocker Hostess Cookbook
no longer has a place of pride on her counter under that fab phone.

It's been replaced by this:




Possibly the most graphically pleasing cookbook cover ever.
OK we'll admit to having a thing for gingham,
and a thing for black,
but still, pretty darn spectacular, right?

Unfortunately, the recipes are dated, the color photography is ghastly,
but the book looks makes a bold statement on the counter.

And judging by the stack of white bread and the jumbo jar of Hellman's on the counter,
Betty wasn't using it for cooking either.

We've got a copy in reasonable shape that Suzanne bought from our
vintage cookbook guru, Bonnie Slotnick.

Leave a comment by the beginning of the next episode of Mad Men.
We'll pick one winner at random.

With thanks to Tlo for the image of Betts in her kitchen.


The Weddding


The big wedding is less than a month away and I have not done all the great things a Mother of the Bride should do.. I have not purchased the large expensive wedding gift, I have not lost the 15 pounds I vowed to, I have not redone the whole downstairs of my home, I have not written all the checks ,I have done what time and money has allowed, and although some days I do feel like that is not enough on most days I revel in the experience of this event the planning, the time spent with my daughter on the details of her day. All the working together that has taken place finding new and less expensive ways to do things it may have cost us more time but boy oh boy how great is that....the joy at watching a young couple navigate these stressful waters confident in the fact that this indeed is the right thing to do. I have stood back in amazement at the love and respect these two have for each other. The willingness to compromise and work it out.


The marriage starts way before the wedding day, these two have become partners, meeting half way. Of all the things I thought would make this day perfect in every way the perfect dress, all the bells and whistles and lots and lots of money to make it happen, what I have learned is that none of that matters what truly matters is the foundation, all the hours put in long before this day, the soccer carpools, the Sundays in church, the long conversations about life in general, the homework checks and the curfew, the working for the things you want. The sharing with others. the child who becomes the bride or the groom, is the job well done.

So I still can not dance, lessons fell out of the budget, I was not able to have the most extravagant floral arrangements, or the spa days before the event, I was not able to do many things that cost money. However today I still have a lovely home for my daughter to descend the staircase on the day of her wedding. I have many many loving friends and family helping in so many ways. I have a wonderful husband that I married 26 years this month that loves his family beyond belief and is so very proud. Blessings everywhere.


I have watched this young couple grow and in the process I have begun to let go.

In 23 days my daughter will be someones wife.

I will have another son and for someone with 6 of the best sons ever born I can only say that

God is good and another son is exactly what this Mom needs.